A Girl's Guide to Self Love on Valentine's Day
“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”- Oscar Wild
Feeling like Valentine's Day is one filled with unmet expectation, past lovers, a scene in the latest rom-com and the worst day of the year? Look no further. Valentine's day is a day to be celebrated by all. In order to love another one must love oneself first and foremost, unconditionally.
Here is your guide to getting a little TLC on V-day.
1. Happy Pill! (there's an app for that)
Headspace APP, $10/Month
Give the gift that keeps on giving. Meditation is clinically proven to increase your mood, empower a successful career and allow you to live a more stress-less life. For 10 minutes a day and 10 dollars a month Headspace App can help decrease anxiety, maximize your sleep and increase your focus. It sets a simple reminder everyday at your premeditated time and offers a 10 minute guided meditation to clear your mind and focus on what truly matters to YOU.
2. BYOH2O
BKR water bottle, $35
Those who hydrate everyday have clearer skin, less toxins, and often weigh less than individuals who are dehydrated. Water is the key to life, but plastic water bottles release toxins and aluminum water bottles, frankly taste like I'm drinking aluminum foil. A stylish glass water bottle is just what you need on this day of self love!
3. Nothing Tastes as Good as Skinny Feels
PINK SNEAKS, $59
Whoever said an outfit doesn't inspire you to get moving, hasn't worn pink sneaks. When you put on a uniform your start to embody the character/mannerisms of the person. People who wear sneakers are more apt to walk faster, exercise, and increase overall movement throughout the day.
4. Frost Yourself
Cupcake, $4 each
Everyone wants to be skinny, but we all like to live a little. There is no better way to live on the sweet side than a Georgetown Cupcake! Have a girls night on the 14th with a bottle of Rosé and a box of rose gold cupcakes. (if you are like me and order vegan cupcakes please note they must be pre-ordered)
5. Starfish in Your Sleep
Sleep Mask, $48
As much as I love to cuddle, nothing beats "starfishing" (all four of your limbs can extend to each bedpost as you sprawl out on your bed). A good night's sleep is priceless for any day of self love. This eye mask will keep the sunlight out and the self love in <3.
6. Sleepwear YOU Actually Want to Sleep In
Heart Loungewear, $77
Finally, girls we can actually buy loungewear we will realistically wear all the time! Although teddy's are sexy, you can't cuddle up for your Sunday Netflix & Chill, or walk the dog after you crawl out of bed on a Saturday morning.
7. Solo Date Night
Herbivore X Summer Water, $100
Besides the fact that this entire gift set is blush rose colored, there is nothing I love more than a face mask and a bubble bath, except a matching gift set including a face mask, bubble bath, soaps, and wine! Going out to dinner can be fun, but it can also be draining. A night in listening to your favorite song, reading a good book, and treating yourself to a DIY spa day can be just what you need this holiday!
8. Ring in Self Love
Quartz Ring, $168
Quartz is a healing stone rooted in energy, power, and clarity. It repels negative energy and attracts balance in relationships, magnetism, and supports spiritual healing. Great for any day and especially a special day to reinforce that love is unconditional and starts with self love.
9. Strengthen the Bond of a Life Time
Pinky Swear BFF Keychain, $38
I solemnly swear to always love my best friend! Do you have that one friend, family member, mother, or sister who gets you through your worst days and your best? Celebrate your love and confirm your bond with them by giving them a keychain to remind them of your unconditional love.
10. Light Your Fire Within
Candle, $34
Hello bath time, hello happy smells, and hello mood lighting. Candles create a serene environment any time of the day and night. Sometimes a good candle is just what you need to focus your attention on what truly matters to YOU. You are the only person in life you have soul responsibility for. Self interest is positive, it means you care more about yourself than others. To love another you must love yourself first.
11. The Gift that Keeps On Giving
Best Friend Chokers, $85
Back in the 90's I wore choker necklaces while listening to the spice girls. Some trends will never go out of style in my heart. The best thing about these nostalgic best friend chokers, is the company that makes them. The Giving Key creates jewelry from recycled keys and employees homeless individuals to elevate them out of poverty. It is one thing to give someone a one time gift to get them through the day or fed at night, but it is truely remarkable to give someone the ability and tools to provide for themselves.
12. Stay in your Vortex
The Vortex, $15
"Remember how good you are & how worthy of whatever you are wanting you are" - Abraham
You are only as loved as you believe you are loved. Flip to any page and read a quote that will inspire you, give you wisdom, and help you achieve your wildest goals.
Have Your Cake & Eat it Too This V-Day
xx,
Ariana Cleo
Special thanks to M Studio
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